1. Don’t be afraid when reality doesn’t match what you thought it would look like.
2. Don’t focus so much on the future that you ignore what’s in front of you.
3. Courage is a decision.
4. You aren’t too old for a career change.
5. You are going to change.
6. Nobody’s opinion is more important than your own.
7. Nobody is good at life. We’re all learning.
8. You don’t need to know what you want.
9. You can figure anything out.
10. It’s OK that you’re single.
11. Be aware of what you’re really upset about.
12. Communicate as your best self.
13. Other people’s baggage is theirs to deal with.
14. Don’t try to change people.
15. Acknowledge that this moment won’t last forever (even if it feels like it will).
16. You don’t need to settle.
17. Forgive yourself for past screw-ups.
18. Find gratitude for the good, the bad and the straight up ugly.
19. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
20. Find your tribe.
They say that your 20s are for defining and your 30s are for refining. No matter where you are, it’s never too late to learn from your past and embrace your potential.
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